Nickelrat
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Cityratt said:ratloveandcute said:Nickelrat said:Shelagh needs our love and support not our criticism. Therefore it's understandable that she gets easily hurt by members worried thoughts.
No offense but I did not say a thing until this thread was posted and I believe the same for other members too.
So it's not fair to blame anybody that posted here when the thread was posted by Shelagh and left open for people to give their thoughts and opinions.
Nowhere does Nic lay blame Ratloveandcute - she essentially said what Jo stated also - emotions are raw, its a scary and upsetting situation for all.
It's not hard to imagine that in similar circumstances, you would potentially be sensitive to peoples concerns, especially if they may have a "tone" associated with them (which i am not implying that ANYONE is talking with a "tone" but in text this is VERY hard to discern). Shelagh is very worried about the health and well being of her rat family. And I think its fair to say (sorry if im shoving words in your mouth Nic but I'm sayin' em now too!) that Nic was just trying to shift the focus off of the "blame game" and onto more important, constructive, matters.
Thank you Cityratt. :exactly: