unglued said:
you're thinking too much like a human, dog's ain't the same as humans, they are born with instincts, the potential to be aggressive, and they don't know how to speak English, they only know how to speak dog. sniffing things, marking things, even rolling in poo, are things dogs do, and that we don't.
some other dog's smell is like a description on a dating website.
if i understand correctly, Titus has been around other dogs, i would be OK with him going to the dog park on leash, even on a long leash, like the 30 foot ones. just don't go during the busy hours, and as soon as you see another dog get him in a sit or down.
No, I'm not thinking like a human. I'm thinking like a person who has trained or assisted to train dozens of dogs, has had excellent relationships with obedience trainers, and a groomer besides. I've a fairly decent handle on dog behavior.
The fact still remains that Titus, having smelled where Bailey peed on the bush, will most definitely not allow him to be in any way more comfortable around Bailey when they meet face to face. Titus will feel the need to mark over where Bailey peed, establishing his own territory. Nothing else. You're the one reading too much into a simple territorial behavior. One dog pees, another dog pees, random stray pees, etc.. Then it starts all over again. They don't *know* each other in any way, or atleast not in the way that you're stating. That is the point. The smell may be familiar, but that doesn't mean they're going to go for each other and act like BFFs. To use your example : You may have read the description, but that doesn't mean you'll recognize, acknowledge, or have any inclination towards the person on the dating site.
I don't know how dog parks are up there, but down here they're fenced in parks, and dogs are absolutely not allowed to be on leashes within the play areas. A normally laid back dog can become extremely aggressive when 'attached' to it's owner in such a way. Again, a territorial sort of thing. As Moon has already pointed out, 9 out 10 people at the parks don't have any sort of control over their dogs and their dogs are generally somewhat aggressive. With an unsocialized barely trained standard poodle, you can't guarantee anyone's safety. Also, how is having Titus go into a sit or down in a dog park when another dog comes around helpful? In a down, he's in a submissive position, which the new dog may try to use to assert their own dominance. See above about dog parks and irresponsible owners. In a sit, he's going to be stressed about not holding the command like he's been trained while a strange dog approaches him. Again, see above about irresponsible pet owners.
I believe it was mentioned that he was a kennel dog at the breeder's. Most breeders that board dogs like that don't take the time to really socialize the animals beyond the basics. Meaning they don't go after humans and aren't overtly aggressive. He was also most likely housed with littermates, or was placed in there when he didn't get immediately adopted and thus grew up with those dogs. They're familiar, just like Lady is now familiar to him because they're living in the same space. Tossing him into a dog park at this point has the potential to seriously backfire in several ways.
I'm glad to hear Titus came through his surgery alright and is doing okay.