I had a genuine laugh out loud. In a whisper I hear: "what the f I'm... I know it's stressful especially all those damn wraps at the beginning and yes, he's placing his teeth on her. So we will be doing intros for quite some time until he no longer does the wraps.
What he was doing with Theia, the mutual butt sniffing, that's good. Theia is bossing him, which is good. He needs that. And then I saw the Theia wrap escalate and I realize what he wants. He wants them on their backs so he can pin them which is common for rats to do but I don't like that he uses his teeth so still stop that.
We are going to try a new method of stopping him. When he's about to wrap, put your hand up, next to the girl and make it like a wall and shuffle Rocky off to the side. Don't pick him up anymore, just make a wall with your hand and sweep him away with the NO.
Another thing I would do with my bossy males and you might think I'm nuts but it seemed to help. I would put my mouth on the neck, doing exactly what he does to the girls. My breath on his neck with positive energy. I realize, that might be hard to do on the bathroom floor though. Maybe do that when it's one on one.
I think Theia really likes him...either that of she's your mom of the group. Sometimes the quiet ones are the one who emerges and settles everyone down.
When they are all together in the corner, huddled, noses in butts. That's good.
Rizzy going after Pika, that's play. That's good
And that part when Rizzy squeaked, he was about to go to her and then she squeaked and he listened to her. That's awesome.
BTW, the handheld is perfect. I see everything. You don't need the other one.
At 19min. Pika looks happy, quick groom, while on you, sniffing the boy. She's liking him. She's not scared there but doesn't want him making moves.
All those squeaks are small protests. I wouldn't worry about those at all.
Yes, all of them crawling on you is good.
Near the 22min mark, I'm really liking what Theia is doing. She's bossing him. And that's exactly what Rocky needs.
Also, all the tail stuff, he's just sniffing them. If he was biting, you would see a tug when the girl moves her tail and you don't. He's sniffing.
Like Peggy said, maybe try a feather for them to chase, maybe put some cherrios in a bunch of fleece and let them find it. Things like that.
Or even, put your fingers on the floor and tap/rap the floor, like playing piano real fast on the floor, some rats get excited with that.
Overall, it was a rough beginning but the ending was great.