GREAT NEWS!
After four days of having the phone pressed to my ear, names leading to other names, all the inns are full, spoken to vets, various rehabbers (including Holly's referral to Linda in Nova Scotia), I FOUND SOMEONE.
She was literally the last name on my list (it's a funny list, people who list other people, mapping out in all different directions to make room on the page).
She sounds like such a nice person, and lives really close to Orangeville which is only about 15 minutes from my farm. She raises the starlings and releases them, which is exactly what I want for him. Wild animals should be wild. She was really sweet too, agreeing with the others that I'm doing all I should be doing (thank you internet!), and said he would be just fine in my hands but would happily take him for me. So I think the next trip to the farm is Wednesday or Thursday, not quite sure, but I am SO HAPPYYY! I was trying not to cry into the phone when she said she could take him, with that bright and cheery voice. I just did not expect to ever hear those words.
Everything will be okay for him now.
And the great part is I have time to adjust to this, and a little more time to have this amazing experience of raising him. I also trust her, which is strange to say but some people I really had weird feelings about. Thank you to ALL who helped with advice or numbers or words of encouragement. :heart: