Ashlyn
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I'm a first time rat owner. I'm struggling to introduce an older rat, Davos, to two younger rats, Stannis and Roose.
A couple of weeks ago, a friend tells me she needs her rat re-homed because her dogs would terrorize him whenever they could in the three weeks she had him. When I started with Davos, he would shy away into his hut and now he'll step onto my hand licking baby food off my finger. A vet tech thought he looked to be around 4/5 mths ago and thought he had a decent temperament. I made plans with a breeder so he wouldn't be lonely and ended up with two more babies! She explained to me that it's better to get younger male rats so fighting for dominance isn't really an issue so I got 7 wk and 5 wk extremely socialized babies. They're so loving and they wrestle and tussle all the time. By this point I had my eldest for six days before getting the babies. I waited six days to introduce them all together in a bath tub and things don't go as well as I hope. Davos is a bit scary to the boys it seems, or maybe just in my eyes.
Day 1: They ask for groomings and it's like they irritate him to the point that he'll pin them down and force groom(?) and they shriek in protest and when it gets bad I put the glove between them. Davos will hiss at them and run to the other corner of the tub interested in anything else. I wait for them to groom themselves before putting them up. Those encounters happened maybe four times.
Day 2: I pray for a better visit and that definitely doesn't happen. I put kale, blueberries, and blackberries in the mix but Davos doesn't pay any attention and just aggressive humps Stannis (which I've read is normal?), but he still hisses afterwards. I put the youngest in and, maybe Roose is absolutely insecure being so small, but he shrieks loudly when Davos put his mouth around the back of his neck. He lets go and hisses, runs to a corner. Like a cycle. I let things calm down, all the boys eat some of the treats and I put them back in their cages. I was hoping he was force grooming him, but it looks like he pulled a small tuff of fur off Roose. I have their cages side by side since last night and Davos still hisses at them, still hissing as I type this out. Their cages are currently five inches apart.
[Rat tax for making it this far:]
Last thing, I guess it's because he's stressed, but when I reached in Davos' cage last night to fix a hammock I let him sniff me like I always do and he broke skin as he bit me. I haven't had that happen before. This morning, I start over thinking he'll like me again with some baby food, he was just irritable! And he licks most of it off and bites me again hard enough to exclaim OW! JEEZ! Yesterday seemed like the one day he's been really happy and the least grumpy since I've had him so I wasn't expecting such a hard bite.
The little boys are aware Davos is the dominant rat but I don't think he knows or cares anything about them? I don't think I should try to have them meet again tonight because I'm terrified of what Davos can do to the baby. Am I overreacting? How do I proceed from here?
I feel like all these picture their personalities perfectly!
Davos (don't let this picture deceive you, he's a 5lb chonk)
Stannis (mid yawn)
Roose
A couple of weeks ago, a friend tells me she needs her rat re-homed because her dogs would terrorize him whenever they could in the three weeks she had him. When I started with Davos, he would shy away into his hut and now he'll step onto my hand licking baby food off my finger. A vet tech thought he looked to be around 4/5 mths ago and thought he had a decent temperament. I made plans with a breeder so he wouldn't be lonely and ended up with two more babies! She explained to me that it's better to get younger male rats so fighting for dominance isn't really an issue so I got 7 wk and 5 wk extremely socialized babies. They're so loving and they wrestle and tussle all the time. By this point I had my eldest for six days before getting the babies. I waited six days to introduce them all together in a bath tub and things don't go as well as I hope. Davos is a bit scary to the boys it seems, or maybe just in my eyes.
Day 1: They ask for groomings and it's like they irritate him to the point that he'll pin them down and force groom(?) and they shriek in protest and when it gets bad I put the glove between them. Davos will hiss at them and run to the other corner of the tub interested in anything else. I wait for them to groom themselves before putting them up. Those encounters happened maybe four times.
Day 2: I pray for a better visit and that definitely doesn't happen. I put kale, blueberries, and blackberries in the mix but Davos doesn't pay any attention and just aggressive humps Stannis (which I've read is normal?), but he still hisses afterwards. I put the youngest in and, maybe Roose is absolutely insecure being so small, but he shrieks loudly when Davos put his mouth around the back of his neck. He lets go and hisses, runs to a corner. Like a cycle. I let things calm down, all the boys eat some of the treats and I put them back in their cages. I was hoping he was force grooming him, but it looks like he pulled a small tuff of fur off Roose. I have their cages side by side since last night and Davos still hisses at them, still hissing as I type this out. Their cages are currently five inches apart.
[Rat tax for making it this far:]
Last thing, I guess it's because he's stressed, but when I reached in Davos' cage last night to fix a hammock I let him sniff me like I always do and he broke skin as he bit me. I haven't had that happen before. This morning, I start over thinking he'll like me again with some baby food, he was just irritable! And he licks most of it off and bites me again hard enough to exclaim OW! JEEZ! Yesterday seemed like the one day he's been really happy and the least grumpy since I've had him so I wasn't expecting such a hard bite.
The little boys are aware Davos is the dominant rat but I don't think he knows or cares anything about them? I don't think I should try to have them meet again tonight because I'm terrified of what Davos can do to the baby. Am I overreacting? How do I proceed from here?
I feel like all these picture their personalities perfectly!
Davos (don't let this picture deceive you, he's a 5lb chonk)
Stannis (mid yawn)
Roose