crumbilina said:
I know when dealing with parents about pets there is just no room for any budging... My dad would NEVER let ANY animal set foot inside the house. My cat, when I was a kid, was outdoor and if my dad found out he had been inside (we sometimes let him in without dad knowing) my dad would blow up. It sucks, but unfortunately what they say goes when your under their roof.
I disagree. I am a parent. Our rats really belong to my son. When first presented with the idea that he wanted rats, it was sort of like "over my dead body, and never in MY house". But he did his research and convinced me that rats would be good and clean pets. So, I have been converted, and I love the rats just as much as the kids do.
But it really is a responsibility to keep everything clean every day. We all pitch in, because everybody has different schedules with school and work. The responsibility is primarily my son's, but his sister and I help out when we can. When the cage is clean, the is NO smell. You have to be prepared with lots of supplies so you can swap out the dirty things regularly. Their hammock gets stinky on a daily basis, so we have several hammocks on hand that we can change every day or two.
I have to admit that if he didn't look after the rats from the beginning, they probably would have been gone long ago. But as long as they are being cared for and kept clean, I am fine with it. If you (the child) are taking the responsibility seriously and setting aside time every day to clean up after your pets, your family will be more accepting. It's only when you seem to be spending time on other things like TV, computer, going out with friends, etc, and ignoring your other responsibilities that parents are not going to put up with having stinky animals and cages in the house.
For us, the ratty rags and laundry go in our regular washing machine. Nothing special. It all comes out clean and fresh, and our other clothing that gets washed in the same machine does NOT stink of rat pee. If you had a small toddler child who wet his pants, would you say that the pants could not be washed in the family machine? Ratty laundry is fine, as long as you shake it all out to get any crumbs off before putting it in the machine.
Just be careful about using towels. The little loops can hook a ratty toe, which can cause a twisted foot, sprain or broken leg. For blankie material, try to find something that doesn't have the terry-cloth loops. Change out for fresh blankies daily, and wash just like regular laundry.