I guess time left is gonna be due to what the tumor presses against? PT's are horrible for us fast or slow, but they do seem to mercifully cause senselessness before physical pain in the kids. My most heartbreaking kid was one who desperately wanted to walk or run but couldn't do anything but circling, and finally falling over while circling. She was obviously in emotion frustration, but she still took great pleasure in being petted or getting favorite foods, she didn't seem to be in physical pain.
Thank goodness your love Noelle was spared that frustration. It sounds like she did a very good job of living until she died. I'd think when she hit that point she would have chosen exactly what you did for her.
So Noelle's ok. Mom & Dad will be in time, just not right now. Not for a while....
I'm so sorry.