Moon
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Petunia said:I'm not liking the reaction I get from so many people when I say I want to try being vegan- it's all negative.
I'm not expecting or wanting anyone else to go vegan, it's just what I want to do.
I just wanted to say something about his because I am having a similar problem... saying "I'm trying to be vegan" or "I am mostly vegan" gets weird looks from herbivores and omnivores alike. And because I haven't cut out dairy and eggs completely (I'm getting better) it feels like a bit of a cop-out. Plus, so many people have the idea that being vegan also means you are aggressive and pushy about your eating habits, and it also seems extremely drastic to them. But if you say something like "I am trying a plant based diet" they seem to go.. oh, that's healthy sounding.
The writer of the Happy Herbivore herself no longer calls herself a Vegan because of attitudes when she'd post something and it would get picked apart for not being vegan enough. There is so much to learn and consider and it's really overwhelming... most sugars are refined with bone char, crisco is technically vegan but from an evil company, and lots of alcohols are filtered with animal products... it's pretty overwhelming and the hard core vegans can get aggressive about it. Then there's the consideration that a product itself may be vegan but has a warning on the back that says "may contain milk ingredients" because of where it's manufactured, and some vegans are aiming for outright personal purity while others are just happy to support a product that doesn't have animal products.
So don't get hung up on the vegan moniker, and use whatever terminology feels good to you. I am not going to throw out my ancient leather shoes and boots, or throw out my locally sourced honey that I bought long, long before I cut out animal products because I'm not interested in wasting food or clothing - and if that makes me not vegan enough for someone, that's fine. I'm doing the best with what I've got and learning as I go.