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odoriusagi

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Being a new rat owner, I only have my short experienced with two intact rescue boys to work with and I wanted to hear from others about how docile/accepting their boys are of unexpected movements and moving them from one place to another.

I have a cuddly boy, Castielle, who is curious and very hyper, about 10 or 12 months old. No aggressive biting, no territorial behaviors, no puffing. However, if you try to pet him and he is in a "grumpy" mood (not sure how to tell when he's in one of these), he will unhesitatingly draw blood if you try to pet him with your finger. If he is in a hut or a hammock and we interact with him, he may accept it, or bite to draw blood. But he NEVER does these things, except in situations when we try to pet him in a house/hammock.

When we lift him up, he ALWAYS squeaks and occasionally bites to draw blood (if we don't pick him up very carefully or don't get him lifted on the first try). However, once lifted, he is happy to sit on a shoulder and readily climbs all over us when it is his choice.

Is this apathy he shows towards us the result of not being "bonded" to us and was raised in unknown circumstances, or do all intact males act this way? Is this because he hasn't known us since he was a baby?

I hear stories of people just grabbing their rats out of their cages and giving them kisses on their tummies! It sounds amazing and completely unattainable! I would probably get a bite on the finger and then a bite on the face if I tried, followed by a very unhappy rat. Will we ever be able to hold him calmly or give him examinations for tumors, skin problems, etc.?
 
I saw that you've already neutered him?
If it its, it also takes a while for his hormone to die off after being neutered.
Some rats prefers their own space; I personally try not to reach in for my boys to get them out - Usually they start coming towards me instead, and that's when I give them pats on their heads, getting them to groom me and give me kisses, and of course, grabbing for examinations, daily.
 
Well if he is biting in a cage or hut, that is territorial behavior. He owns that hut and you cannot be in there lOL Most rats do not care if they are dead asleep, in hammock a hidey house, or eating. Typically you should be able to pick up a rat at any moment without worry of bite. Then you have those boys with the devil beads that are grumpy on occasion, bitey or just straight up mean.A neuter always makes for a happier man-rat. a number of my rats I can pick up at any given moment without worry. I have some who I cannot touch with a 10 foot pole without them trying to rip out my soul. If he doesnt like being picked up then you need to condition him to like it. You can do it out of the cage if he will take treats. pick him up, give him a treat and set him back down. Never wake a possible bitey rat with just your hands. Talk to them, let them wake up first then grab them but always talk to them. Some times it is how you grab them as well. Going over their head may make them feel cornered. If you touch their back hip area that is a "dueling" spot and will trigger them to react. Some are on guard so much they may not realize it is you and not an "intruder" some have a high level of prey animal instincts in them.

do you currently have 2 boys? and are they living together?
 
This boy is not the neutered one correct? The other, Mimo just got neutered a few days ago. It is possible he is now having his hormones take over - its a little late, but you don't know his exact age and I have two boys now that are around 11 months and their hormones hit about a month ago and they are in need of neuters too. These boys have never liked to be picked up, but they are getting better. I usually have to tell them "Mommy is picking you up now" and then scoop them up. I then hold them for a while and then give them a treat, put them back in the cage, and repeat the process again and again. For play time we put a ladder up to the cage and let them come out on their own. Also, if I'm not mistaken you have a cat? If you don't wash your hands after touching the cat your boys can smell the cat and think predator. One of my boys nips/bites at my fiance's legs all the time and that is where his cat lays on him. You may also want to try having a "rat shirt' one shirt you wear all the time for a while when your with your boys so they can smell themselves on you. Give them time, my two boys that I thought would never bond with us because they hate being touched finally should improvement last month!

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Anytime a rat bites you, you need to squeak. They may not know they're hurting you, you don't have a thick coat of fur to protect you like they do. Biting can be a form of communicating that they are unhappy with something but they may not be intending to actually hurt you.

If he bites you when he's in his houses, you can get houses with floors (the Savic Circus and Rody Iglo are two examples that come to mind) so that you can lift the house with him in it out of the cage. Or you can take the house away and then pick him up.

Another work around is to teach him cues to come out on his own. Each rat is different and sometimes we need to find work arounds to accommodate their quirks.

It's rare to have rats that bite the way you're describing. Have you tried just giving them scritches to wake them up before taking them out?

Some rats are cage territorial. It's not very common but I have one female that bites my hand inside the cage every chance she gets. If my hand isn't moving, she test bites it to warn me but if I'm doing something (like wiping down the shelves) and I don't pay attention, she really clocks me every time. Outside the cage, she would never dream of it. I've had her and her daughter since her daughter was 5-6 weeks old and her daughter is still terrified of me (I've had them since April '12) and screams like you wouldn't believe when I pick her up. Every day. I've taken in other rats that were older adults that lived in really awful situations their entire lives (Charlie that was adopted by Unepuce is an example) and in a matter of days they trusted me. One of my most amazing rats, Monty, came from a horrible hoarding situation here in Montreal and passed through a lot of hands before getting to me. He was the sweetest, happiest, gentlest rat with humans, not so comfortable with other male rats though even after his neuter. Getting rats as babies really does not make a big difference in how a rat bonds to their humans but it can make a difference in how attached we are to them.
 
hopefloats said:
Well if he is biting in a cage or hut, that is territorial behavior. He owns that hut and you cannot be in there lOL Most rats do not care if they are dead asleep, in hammock a hidey house, or eating. Typically you should be able to pick up a rat at any moment without worry of bite. Then you have those boys with the devil beads that are grumpy on occasion, bitey or just straight up mean.A neuter always makes for a happier man-rat. a number of my rats I can pick up at any given moment without worry. I have some who I cannot touch with a 10 foot pole without them trying to rip out my soul. If he doesnt like being picked up then you need to condition him to like it. You can do it out of the cage if he will take treats. pick him up, give him a treat and set him back down. Never wake a possible bitey rat with just your hands. Talk to them, let them wake up first then grab them but always talk to them. Some times it is how you grab them as well. Going over their head may make them feel cornered. If you touch their back hip area that is a "dueling" spot and will trigger them to react. Some are on guard so much they may not realize it is you and not an "intruder" some have a high level of prey animal instincts in them.

do you currently have 2 boys? and are they living together?

We have one unneutered boy (the one I'm describing in this post) who is generally a sweetie, but he has his own assertive personality for sure. Mimo was neutered earlier this week and is STILL being monitored at the clinic for popping/removing stitches! We had a successful reintroduction before the stitch popping and are sad to have to do it again. :(

dspch911 said:
This boy is not the neutered one correct? The other, Mimo just got neutered a few days ago. It is possible he is now having his hormones take over - its a little late, but you don't know his exact age and I have two boys now that are around 11 months and their hormones hit about a month ago and they are in need of neuters too. These boys have never liked to be picked up, but they are getting better. I usually have to tell them "Mommy is picking you up now" and then scoop them up. I then hold them for a while and then give them a treat, put them back in the cage, and repeat the process again and again. For play time we put a ladder up to the cage and let them come out on their own. Also, if I'm not mistaken you have a cat? If you don't wash your hands after touching the cat your boys can smell the cat and think predator. One of my boys nips/bites at my fiance's legs all the time and that is where his cat lays on him. You may also want to try having a "rat shirt' one shirt you wear all the time for a while when your with your boys so they can smell themselves on you. Give them time, my two boys that I thought would never bond with us because they hate being touched finally should improvement last month!

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I don't think Cass is particularly hormonal, I just get the feeling that he is grumpy and saying, "Nope. Go away." or "Nope. No pets there." It doesn't feel like aggressive biting, even though he draws blood, as it's nothing like Mimo sauntering up to us like he owns the whole condo and taking chunks out of our arms at his own leisurely pace!

He seems to at least tolerate being touched, he just seems kind of feisty. Overall, he is a cuddly guy with his own ideas about the universe that sometimes clash with ours!

Hmmmm, the cat... Not sure. We actually introduced the cats and rats together when they first came home, and observed a sort of bored response from both sides (rats don't care about the cats, cats don't show particular interest in the rats, except when they fight - the cats are scared and hide under the bed!). The cats are allowed to lounge in the room all day and sometimes wander in and out during rat playtime (supervised, ALWAYS). We did see one episode when a cat happened to jump into the play area, and Mimo sauntered up to his paw in a kind of "I'm the boss, watch yourself" kind of way... The cat was freaked and fled the scene, no injuries were reported.

victoria said:
Anytime a rat bites you, you need to squeak. They may not know they're hurting you, you don't have a thick coat of fur to protect you like they do. Biting can be a form of communicating that they are unhappy with something but they may not be intending to actually hurt you.

If he bites you when he's in his houses, you can get houses with floors (the Savic Circus and Rody Iglo are two examples that come to mind) so that you can lift the house with him in it out of the cage. Or you can take the house away and then pick him up.

Another work around is to teach him cues to come out on his own. Each rat is different and sometimes we need to find work arounds to accommodate their quirks.

It's rare to have rats that bite the way you're describing. Have you tried just giving them scritches to wake them up before taking them out?

Some rats are cage territorial. It's not very common but I have one female that bites my hand inside the cage every chance she gets. If my hand isn't moving, she test bites it to warn me but if I'm doing something (like wiping down the shelves) and I don't pay attention, she really clocks me every time. Outside the cage, she would never dream of it. I've had her and her daughter since her daughter was 5-6 weeks old and her daughter is still terrified of me (I've had them since April '12) and screams like you wouldn't believe when I pick her up. Every day. I've taken in other rats that were older adults that lived in really awful situations their entire lives (Charlie that was adopted by Unepuce is an example) and in a matter of days they trusted me. One of my most amazing rats, Monty, came from a horrible hoarding situation here in Montreal and passed through a lot of hands before getting to me. He was the sweetest, happiest, gentlest rat with humans, not so comfortable with other male rats though even after his neuter. Getting rats as babies really does not make a big difference in how a rat bonds to their humans but it can make a difference in how attached we are to them.

I think he's just a grumpster sometimes, otherwise he's in the VERY beginning stages of getting hormonal. He does not like skritches at all, ESPECIALLY when waking up, and can get almost violent, with thrashing-style bites. However, if you rest your arm in the cage, he runs up your arm to sit on your shoulder or climb into your hood, it's no problem getting him out of the cage. He's a curious little fuzz.

Rilence said:
I saw that you've already neutered him?
If it its, it also takes a while for his hormone to die off after being neutered.
Some rats prefers their own space; I personally try not to reach in for my boys to get them out - Usually they start coming towards me instead, and that's when I give them pats on their heads, getting them to groom me and give me kisses, and of course, grabbing for examinations, daily.

Mimo was neutered, yes, but we are leaving Cass "as-is", since he seems to be (if not exactly the definition of "gentle"...) more normal? I don't think I've ever been "groomed," although I've heard that mouthing is part of grooming. Sometimes they take my fingers in their mouths and apply a slight pressure. I've always interpreted mouthing as "I'm giving you a little warning that I'm not so happy with what you're doing and next time you might not be so lucky."

They obviously don't "like" us, but I don't think Cass hates us either; after all, we are his prime source of treats and yogurt. I'm pretty sure Mimo very strongly dislikes me, but hopefully the neuter will help with that!

I feel bad that I don't trust either one of them a whole lot. :( I always watch where my fingers are, calculate my approach to be precise, quick and calm if I absolutely need to pick Cass up with my hands (I would never try to pick Mimo up without lifting him in a house or a tube). We can't leave our fingers just lying out there when we interact with them during playtime and usually end up making very tight fists, curling our hands up in our laps or pulling our sleeves over them. I try not to enter their space, but they are so cute and it does make me a little bit sad to watch them but not pet/hold/interact with them somehow.

I thought that maybe all of Castielle's behaviors were just "the usual" for boy rats who still have their torpedoes.
 
With my rats, I have one rule, if you bite a human and draw blood, you get neutered. No second chances.

Rats do not bite. It is not common for a happy well socialized stable rat to bite. But rats have been so overbred and abused, neglected, abandoned, we are seeing all kinds of undesirably behaviours. When a rat bites, he's stressed out, the reason is not important, be it hormonal, territorial, genetics... it all boils down to stress. Neuter will remove that stress.
I'm surprised to find out that even Castielle is biting and drawing blood. I would have recommended having both neutered.
But if you don't want him neutered, you can work with him and respect his space, in a few months from now, he may never bite again.
 
Any boys I have had, have been neutered. I just did a head count and think I have had 23 rats, and then another 10 babies that were raised and re-homed. I have to admit I have been very lucky in that all 33 ratties have been absolutely wonderful and I pick/picked them up and smooshed them and snuggled them anytime without ever worrying about being bitten.
It is tough that your first experience with rats is with these boys who aren't so trustworthy right now. But give it time. I know I keep saying that, but most rats will come around to be wonderful pets. These guys will take some extra effort but it will be worth it when that breakthrough finally comes. :D
 
I would more like to get licked than bit by my rats and 2 are rescued snake feeders. They are skittish but they are not bity and I have done some things that may illicit a bite like grabbing them from their hidy holes and patting their faces etc. I think to take away fear behaviors you need to surround them with things they are afraid of. Pick them up a lot if they don't like being picked up.
For that rat who is territorial all I can say, besides neutering, is that you have to keep changing his living situation around. He doesn't own anything. You own everything. Just keep changing his place of residence. Make it a box one day, a hammock the next, and switch things (rearrange the cage) constantly.
 
Out of our 15, I have only been bitten by 2 - real blood dripping bites!! Nibbles, bites - opps, sorry your not the treat, etc do not count! Our rats don't mind the cat and vice versa - infact we have some that play with her tail and had one sleep on her. Put one guy just loves to bite the fiance right where she lays in his lap when he smells like her. I think your other boy needs a neuter too. Licks are wonderful to get!!
 
I've only ever kept males, ever, in all the many years I've been keeping rats. And I've only ever had to get two boys neutered. One was for rat-on-rat aggression, and the other was for a melanoma. I've never once been bit. Nipped - yes, but nipping doesn't draw blood. Biting is when a rat decides he really wants to hurt you.

So no, aggressive biting is NOT normal at all for intact boys. Normally they are fat floppy squishes and biting is about as out of character for them as sprouting wings and flying.
 
BlueSkyy said:
I've only ever kept males, ever, in all the many years I've been keeping rats. And I've only ever had to get two boys neutered. One was for rat-on-rat aggression, and the other was for a melanoma. I've never once been bit. Nipped - yes, but nipping doesn't draw blood. Biting is when a rat decides he really wants to hurt you.

So no, aggressive biting is NOT normal at all for intact boys. Normally they are fat floppy squishes and biting is about as out of character for them as sprouting wings and flying.

I'm both happy and sad about what you said, BlueSkyy, since it sounds like maybe we could have intact boys in the future. :( In my four weeks of owning rats, I've received 9 bites that drew blood, three of which were lacerations involving a cracked fingernail, and one so deep that the knucklebone could be seen if you opened the bite wound. Just a super hormonal guy who sweetly takes treats from you, then sneaks around you when you're not looking and decides he'd like rare steak instead. :(

Was wiping down the outside of the cage this morning with Castielle playing on a fleece laid out with toys on top of the cage - he lunged at my face and got my nostril. Top teeth on the outside, bottom teeth inside my nose, a bloody bite. I did shed a few tears, as I'd spent the previous 15 minutes petting him and feeding him yogurt treats.

He's currently in his hammock, bruxxing and boggling to himself. :( He's just an innocent little creature, I wish I could figure out what was going wrong.

Maybe I just don't have the right body language for keeping rats? Is it possible that with Mimo under obs at the clinic that Castielle is just being weird because he's gone? Or, as I've wondered in my heart of hearts, there's just something inexplicable that I'm doing wrong and I'm ruining them and should just stick to cats? :sad3:
 
Our Oliver would lash out like that - strike like a snake. We had him neutered and he is back to the nice, cuddle boy he was before his hormones took over. This is also the boy that we called Damon! I could tell when he was Oliver and when he was Damon and we needed to watch out... Oliver had glossy eyes and looked happy. Damon had dull eye and a vacant stare and we didn't dare go near him.
 
It has nothing to do with you!!!!! Rats are so overbred with no consideration whatsoever for genetics. They would be have turned out like this with anyone.
Can you have Castielle neutered too? That would be your best bet and later, add a female, you'll have the perfect colony.
 
odoriusagi said:
Or, as I've wondered in my heart of hearts, there's just something inexplicable that I'm doing wrong and I'm ruining them and should just stick to cats? :sad3:
I agree with Jorats - it is not your fault!
It is so sad to hear how discouraged you are! If you had the many positive experiences first before these two guys, then you would know it's them and not you, but unfortunately this is your first experience with rats.

I would encourage you to get Castielle neutered too. And does the vet still have your other boy?!

If you feel like you will never be able to trust them, then the last resort would be to rehome them to someone experienced like Lilspaz ('cuz Shelagh needs a challenge :giggle: ) and start fresh with a couple of well-socialized ratties.

Repeat after me: "It's not my fault. It's not my fault!"
 
Joanne said:
I agree with Jorats - it is not your fault!
It is so sad to hear how discouraged you are! If you had the many positive experiences first before these two guys, then you would know it's them and not you, but unfortunately this is your first experience with rats.

I would encourage you to get Castielle neutered too. And does the vet still have your other boy?!

If you feel like you will never be able to trust them, then the last resort would be to rehome them to someone experienced like Lilspaz ('cuz Shelagh needs a challenge :giggle: ) and start fresh with a couple of well-socialized ratties.

Repeat after me: "It's not my fault. It's not my fault!"

:) :) :)

I think I would feel awful if I gave up on them... But having a good experience is important to me too. We invested a lot of money in these two little guys. Is Lilspaz a trouble-rat wizard?

The vet does still have our other boy - he removed the glue from his incision several times and they had to re-anesthetize him and suture the outside too, since after they reglued, he'd remove it mysteriously pretty soon after. They'll have him until Monday and I'm not super excited about the reintroduction...
 
If those boys are close to one year old, I really am in agreement with everybody and encourage you to get him neutered. I "rescued" my boy Pollux from a petshop (he had lacerated his brother's belly at the store, so you know exactely where he would have ended), and he was the most territorial, flank rubber, hard sniffer rat I have ever seen. Sweet at times, but a true terror at others... I was about to give up on him and then sent him to neuter. The neuter turned him completely over - Pollux was the biggest rat in my crew, and definitely the alpha, but he was a good alpha, loved his rats and humans friends - he went from an absolute terror as my first rat ever to draw blood from me to an absolute squish. Give Mimo some time, hormones should be off his system about a month after his neuter and I bet you will see the difference a huge difference in his behavior. If you still haven't gotten Castielle neutered by then, I bet you will be running to the vet, begging! :giggle:

Good luck! I myself wanted to adopt those beautiful boys (they are actually a living picture of a pair I adopted last year - Charlie that Victoria mentioned in an earlier post, and Jay, my big black boy who is still with me), but I am already over my number and had to pass. I'm sorry you have to be learning rat loving the hard way, but those darn hormones can get the best of even the gentlest ratman...
 
I'd say he is a rescue and you don't know what kinds of memories he has of that other place. Mine are snake feeder rescues (except one) and will all allow themselves to be forcibly dragged out of any hidy hole and will offer no violent reaction (biting). They will corncob and taste your hand if you put it in hoping to get a nice treat (I expect there might be food on your skin). I do not consider this biting. Munching down and biting-- yes. But maybe he is expecting treat and not finger? I guess keep working on it.
 

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