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Peter with his friend, in the same spot, before the hormones took over!
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So I've been having trouble 7monthish rats fighting. Peter and Fred usually have a big scuffle during out time, but it never leads to blood. In the cage there'll be a couple scuffles a day, usually Fred and Peter, but sometimes Neville gets involved. Albus is never a fighter, and these fights are usually squeakless, so I figure they're just wrestles.

Fred has gotten bloody bites from Peter 3 times now (not counting during intros).
Once was about 3 weeks ago, maybe just two, when I went away for the weekend, I do think it is because they didn't have time out of the cage for four days.
The next time was when they fell out of the cage because I opened it while they were fighting, so I figured maybe that was why, Peter got scared by the fall and lashed out.

The last time was just now. I was watching them carefully, trying to see who the aggressor is/was. They both get so puffy. I pulled them apart and did the hand domination thing, which has helped before, but they kept getting puffy again this time, and circled each other.

Then there was some boxing and then a standoff with a lot of hissing from Fred. I wanted to split them up at this time, but Fred's back was pressed into the cage door, so I just waited for them to break it up, but the ratball that followed was very squeaky, I couldn't see what was going on, but when I opened the cage, Fred JUMPED out on to me. He has never done that before, even when he reeeally wants to come out for play time. He has 3 or 4 bleeding bites, not serious gashes at all, but still.
He's sitting, bruxing, in the laundry basket right now (his idea, not mine haha, he's a cutie).

So now I want to split them up (I can do this with my cage, but I only have one water bottle at the moment...the other one I had was melted on the stove the other day :emb: ), but I don't have the stuff for two cage setups at the moment...
Fred just came to see me, he's such a sweetie. He's my only rat who really seems to love, love me.
But I also want to put them back together. They are actually best friends, and 99% of the time they're cuddling, or just sitting next to each other. Whenever one of them is out of the cage without the other, like now, the other one just stares out, looking for him.
Will they be okay for the night? Is it okay to separate them 60% of the time and then have them together if I am right there to pull them apart if need be (when the hissing starts, I guess).

I know people are going to say "neuter time" but then how do I decide which one to do (first)? Neither have shown any aggression with me or with the others though, so I really wonder if it isn't just normal jostling for alpha.
 
I dunno, I have always had a harmonious cage. Right now my new girl Penelope has finally been allowed to settle in, so there is 8 together with no fighting or chasing or puffyness. Everyone is spayed/neutered. I think that if spaying and neutering keeps everyone happy and mellow, then it's worth the surgery. If the same two fight all the time, maybe save up your $ and do both at the same time. Then no one has the advantage.
 
How long have they been living together?
I personally would not separate, but I would be observing them closely to see who will get the chop.
 
We try to neuter all our boys, even though the medical benefits are not nearly as drastic as they are for spaying girls(we also spay all our girlies/adopt spayed girls). Your boys are at that age, hormones are raging. And yeah, the answer you're going to hear is, neuter the aggressors. If it's just two of your boys doing all the fighting, and they are both coming away wounded, you probably should do both, if it is monetarily possible. Fred will still be your snuggle rat, and Peter just might become one post surgery. =) Even if it were just one getting bitten, its hard to say who the instigator is - the one with all the wounds could be the aggressive one, and is just a really terrible fighter. :giggle:
 
Okay, but they can live together while we're waiting for the neuter? They're together right now. They were apart for about an hour, because Fred just wasn't having any of Peter, there was a lot of running and chasing while they were both out, and then everytime they got close, Fred would go into that sort of bite-warning pose, or even take a little nibble at Peter's face. Peter was definitely just trying to make up though.

A major issue is that I'm probably going to London for 3 or 4 days next weeks. My options are to bring just Fred along with me (my favorite, cause I can introduce him to my cousins (all animal loving kids) and turn them into rat lovers, haha), leave him home separated from Peter, or leave him home with them all together. My boyfriend will be taking care of them, but I don't think he could split them up or de-escalate it if something happened--he doesn't know much about rat behaviour or what's normal for my boys in particular.

And yeah, there are four boys in my cage, but the other two are very close and I wouldn't want to separate them, Neville needs his Albus. They've been together for at least 2 months. 3 months. Time flies.

But yeah, neuter it is.
I knew this day was coming.
Recent life complications have drained my funds, but I'm sure I'll make it work...
Has anyone had a recent neuter with Dr. Munn, so I know how much to expect?
 
Hmm. Yeah. Well, at least if I'm home I can transfer Neville and Albus between top and bottom multiple times a day while we re-intro. Would that be okay? Keep Fred and Peter separate, but keep Neville and Albus moving between the two areas?

I've decided I really only feel good about bringing Fred with me and then keeping them split up until Peter can get neutered. Asap, really. It is definitely Peter, he's the one who gets puffy first usually, he's been rubbing himself against walls, anything, while out, and he's always chasing his cagemates.
 
Thank you so much. I feel so much better knowing my plan is okay.

They're all still together, but Peter is definitely picking fights with the others. Sometimes he's good, but Fred is pretty suspicious of him now, so they are not cuddling as much now. Though, Peter just bounced over to a sleeping Fred for some very good grooming right now, so they have good times too.

I'll call tomorrow to (hopefully) make an appointment for his neuter. The sooner the better, at this point, right?
 

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