I am, I hope, going to be having knee replacement surgery sometime this year. It takes a long time to set it up, so I think it probably will be in late Fall, it depends on the surgeon's schedule.
Because I live alone (no other humans live with me, I do not technically live alone :lol: I've got 4 rats and 3 cats) well, because I have no one to help take care of me afterward, and because I live on the 3rd floor and do not drive, I am going to have to go into a nursing home/rehab facility for up to 2 weeks after the surgery, as I will not be able to climb stairs, scoop litter boxes, etc etc.
I almost want to not go ahead with the surgery because I can't imagine being away from my babies for two DAYS let alone two weeks! but if I don't have this done, it's just going to get harder and harder to take care of them. And myself.
So, long story shortened a little bit, I am going to need someone to take care of my rats and someone to take care of my cats.
There's no one in my neighborhood I would trust to come into my house and care for the pets. I don't live in the best neighborhood. People move in and out all the time, no one has been here as long as I have (15yrs!!)
already asked the two family members and they can't help for good reasons, not because they don't want to.
I do have a friend who said she'd take the rats, but if for some reason she can't, I probably should have a back up plan
I don't even know where to begin to look for a sitter! I know that you can pay professional sitters to come in once or twice a day but I really would rather have the cats in someone's home. I worry that something will happen if they are left alone 95% or more of the time. So much can go wrong, esp with the 3 of them. THey could get into a fight, one could get sick, etc etc
also professional pet sitters charge $15 or more per visit, that's $30 per day, way more than I can afford
I can't have the cats boarded because they haven't been recently vaccinated for rabies, and for various reasons won't be vaccinated any time soon. Boarding places keep the cats in cages, I don't want my cats in a cage for 2 weeks!
I would feel so much better if they stayed with someone. Besides they are MUCH better behaved in a different environment. But most ppl who like cats, already have cats and that can cause problems.......
:gaah:
I also have to figure out what to pay for these services. Of course I would provide food litter etc etc
What do you think is a reasonable amount to care for 2 or 3 cats for a week to 2 weeks (I am hoping I can rush the therapy and get home sooner, maybe that's just wishful thinking but I will be extremely motivated!!!)
what would you pay someone to take care of your rats for the same length of time?
of course if I cant find anyone or cant save up enough I wont' be able to get my new knee.
Part of me is just wanting to forget about it, because I do not like being away from my home or my babies at all (I am rarely away from home for more than 4 or 5 hrs at a time, usually if i go out its for 3 hrs or less!)
this is gonna be so so hard!
not the surgery, I mean, I have a pretty good idea how that will go, I"ve had ortho surgery before, it hurts like hell at first but you heal pretty fast
er well I did back when I was 18 yrs old! LOL maybe I won't heal quite as fast now at 55 :giggle:
sorry for the rambling post, I have an anxiety attack anytime I think about leaving my kids!
Because I live alone (no other humans live with me, I do not technically live alone :lol: I've got 4 rats and 3 cats) well, because I have no one to help take care of me afterward, and because I live on the 3rd floor and do not drive, I am going to have to go into a nursing home/rehab facility for up to 2 weeks after the surgery, as I will not be able to climb stairs, scoop litter boxes, etc etc.
I almost want to not go ahead with the surgery because I can't imagine being away from my babies for two DAYS let alone two weeks! but if I don't have this done, it's just going to get harder and harder to take care of them. And myself.
So, long story shortened a little bit, I am going to need someone to take care of my rats and someone to take care of my cats.
There's no one in my neighborhood I would trust to come into my house and care for the pets. I don't live in the best neighborhood. People move in and out all the time, no one has been here as long as I have (15yrs!!)
already asked the two family members and they can't help for good reasons, not because they don't want to.
I do have a friend who said she'd take the rats, but if for some reason she can't, I probably should have a back up plan
I don't even know where to begin to look for a sitter! I know that you can pay professional sitters to come in once or twice a day but I really would rather have the cats in someone's home. I worry that something will happen if they are left alone 95% or more of the time. So much can go wrong, esp with the 3 of them. THey could get into a fight, one could get sick, etc etc
also professional pet sitters charge $15 or more per visit, that's $30 per day, way more than I can afford
I can't have the cats boarded because they haven't been recently vaccinated for rabies, and for various reasons won't be vaccinated any time soon. Boarding places keep the cats in cages, I don't want my cats in a cage for 2 weeks!
I would feel so much better if they stayed with someone. Besides they are MUCH better behaved in a different environment. But most ppl who like cats, already have cats and that can cause problems.......
:gaah:
I also have to figure out what to pay for these services. Of course I would provide food litter etc etc
What do you think is a reasonable amount to care for 2 or 3 cats for a week to 2 weeks (I am hoping I can rush the therapy and get home sooner, maybe that's just wishful thinking but I will be extremely motivated!!!)
what would you pay someone to take care of your rats for the same length of time?
of course if I cant find anyone or cant save up enough I wont' be able to get my new knee.
Part of me is just wanting to forget about it, because I do not like being away from my home or my babies at all (I am rarely away from home for more than 4 or 5 hrs at a time, usually if i go out its for 3 hrs or less!)
this is gonna be so so hard!
not the surgery, I mean, I have a pretty good idea how that will go, I"ve had ortho surgery before, it hurts like hell at first but you heal pretty fast
er well I did back when I was 18 yrs old! LOL maybe I won't heal quite as fast now at 55 :giggle:
sorry for the rambling post, I have an anxiety attack anytime I think about leaving my kids!