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gramma2jaakk

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that seems totally unfair to us humans but we know is in the best interest of our little rat friends. I have decided that today will be the one when we have Polly pts. I'm sitting here crying as I type this, knowing what an impact she has made on us and Sally. Polly has only lived with us and been Sally's cage mate since August 2009, so only 6 months. But she was the Godsend that Sally and Josie needed, after losing Lucy in July 2009. And Sally needed Polly's companionship when Josie left us in October.

Polly has so many things going wrong with her all at once. I took her to the vet on January 22nd for some 'purring' she was doing. The vet put her on Trimethiprim twice a day along with keeping the vaporizor going for humidity, and that helped for a while, but now she's back to purring. She is having these respiratory issues more frequently.

She has a lump that appeared last week, and has gotten twice the size in the last 2 days. She also had HED, so is scooting around trying SO hard to walk and it is painful to watch. She can't climb on anything anymore, falling from the lowest shelves in the cage. Last week I was holding her and she tried to climb onto my shoulder, but before I could put Sally down then Polly slipped and fell about 1 foot to the floor. She wasn't hurt, but it scared me.

Polly also has been losing weight fast. I've tried everything I can think of to put SOME weight back on her, but nothing is helping. Neal thinks that the lump might be cancerous and that is why she is losing weight. And she has also been losing her hair. Poor little thing looks so sickly with patches of hair gone.

But she is still so happy! That is why this is such a touch decision. She has recently discovered the joys of the wheel. Even though she is only walking on it, she loves it. And she loves her free-range time. Polly loves to cuddle and get scritches also, having discovering that in October just before we lost Josie. Polly loves to give us kisses when she is cuddling, and grooms the top of Neal's ears and the back of my neck, which tickles! One of Polly's favorite things to do is climb into Neal's shirt at the waist and clean herself then fall asleep.

We are so careful to make sure that she is safe, sitting with our backs against the couch when she crawls onto us. We help her to the seat on the couch and block the edges when we think she is getting too close. And we have low ramps for her, but she falls off of them so we don't put them up anymore. Even to the top of a brick is too high for her.

So, with all these things, we talked about it and decided that for our love for her, it is in her best interest to have her pts. It isn't fair to her that she should go on with her life the way it is. I had to make a similar decision a few years ago when we had our greyhound put down. She was also losing weight and was having lots of other health issues, so we did the only fair things we could do for her. But none of this is fair to us. It is only fair to Polly.

I've made her appointment for 4pm today, when Neal can go with me. I already know I'm going to be a wreck.
 
Aw, so sorry :hug:
It is a very hard thing to do, but you know what’s best ..and there is no point keeping them around just for our satisfaction. Your making the right choice :heart:
 
:hugs: I completely understand where you are coming from I had to make the same decision on Monday...just know she will be in a better place where her body wont fail her anymore.
 
I understand too ... it is such a painful and difficult decision to have to make.
Betsie was pts last week and Sandy was pts today so I know ...

:hugs:
 
Im sorry to hear, you will make it though, it is the best decision for your her.
Sincerest sympathy. thinking of you and polly :heart:
 
i am so sorry to hear of your trying ordeal. rest assured she will thank you for helping her out of this daily misery. She knows you love her and will take that to the bridge with her..

:hugs: :hugs:
 
Thank you everyone. We have been home now for just about an hour. Everyone at the vets office was so nice and sweet during all this. I cried my eyes out, and still am, thinking of Polly and how her life was going (or not going). The vet came into the room first, telling us what would take place, Neal signed the papers because I couldn't see for all my tears, then they left us alone for a few minutes with Polly.

The tech came in next and asked if we wanted to be with Polly or not, which I just couldn't do. I feel so bad for that, but I just couldn't do it. She gave me a hug and said she knows how much I love all my ratty kids. She took Polly away then came back with more papers to sign. When the vet came back a few minutes later, she had Polly wrapped in a blanket that I took along, and had her in a box for me to bury in my backyard, next to Josie and Lucy. They also had a small clay disk with Polly's name and her paw prints, then she gave me a hug also, telling me that she knew Polly would be ok now. She said we did our best for Polly while she was alive and helping her over the bridge now was the best thing we could do for her today.

I have to bake the disk before I can do anything with it. I could put a hole in it for an ornament, or place it on the mantle with a picture of Polly, but Neal suggested that I place it in the headstone when I make Polly's. I also like that idea. I've made headstones for Lucy and Josie, and will make one for each of my ratties when their time comes. And I got a copy of "The Rainbow Bridge" poem. I will have to scrapbook that when I work on the book of my rat-kids.
 
This is one of the most selfless things any animal lover can do when the time is right. It is hard but when our fur babies are telling us they have had enough then what else can we do.

Hugs to you and Neil at this difficult time. Any rat lover knows how heartbroken you are right now and understands :hugs:
 

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